🌟Thank a Mentor
November 20, 2025
Almost no one builds their gate alone. Somewhere back along the path, a person handed you a tool you didn’t know you needed — a teacher, a coach, a grandparent, a boss, a friend who saw you clearly. Today we find that person and say thank you out loud.
Not a letter — a voice
Earlier in this journey you may have written a gratitude letter. Today is different. Today we want the live connection: a phone call, a voice note, a face across a table. There’s something about a real voice that a card can’t carry — the small catch in it, the warmth, the surprise on the other end.
Why this lands so deeply
We badly underestimate how good it feels for someone to hear they mattered. Studies on expressing gratitude find that recipients are almost always more moved than the sender expects — and that naming a specific thing (“you taught me to slow down before I answer”) lands far harder than a general “thanks for everything.”
Try this
Pick one mentor. Reach out today — call, voice message, or in person — and tell them:
- One specific thing they taught or modeled for you.
- How it still shows up in your life now.
Don’t over-script it. “I was just thinking about you, and I wanted you to know…” is a perfect start.
The hand that gave you the first vine
In the story, every gatekeeper learned from someone before them. Thanking a mentor isn’t just kindness — it’s honoring the lineage of your own gate. The good they planted in you is still growing.
Make the call you keep meaning to make. Future-you will be so glad you did. ⭐
Read the book behind the practice
Thank You Gate by AJ Ellis — every thank you is a little bit of magic.